This anecdote was excerpted from the "Now What?" section of AYSO's weekly "Hey Coach" email newsletter. We felt re-posting it here might help to enlighten everyone on what "Silent Saturday" and "Silent Sidelines" is really supposed to be about. It might also give our coaches ideas on helping their parents also understand what it's about.
"My Region has decided to implement Silent Saturdays as a way to reduce the loud noise on the sidelines and parents are upset! They think their children enjoy the loud sideline noise and cheering. They don’t understand how Silent Saturdays helps the kids. Now What?"
Answer: Silent Saturdays were designed to eliminate the epidemic of parents and coaches yelling instructions from the sidelines. An easy analogy is if you were in the middle of a task, would it help to have someone screaming at you and telling you what to do? No. So why is this acceptable on a soccer field?
Parents need to understand the spirit of Silent Saturdays, which is to allow players to make decisions on their own and learn the game. After all, if the child doesn't make their own mistakes, it will hinder their development in the sport. If parents think their children are confused and don’t know what to do without sideline instruction, that's an indication that players haven't been allowed to make their own decisions. Players will learn the game by making their own decisions, learning from their mistakes, and continuing to play.